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Summer and Birth

I’ve been busy lately with so many things, I can hardly write about them all. So, I’ll try to summarize it…

Knights of Freedom Summit is through! It was an amazing experience, and I was so excited to meet new people and get out of my comfort zone. I was Volunteer Coordinator, and although it took a lot of leg work, it paid off in the end. With very few exceptions, it went off extremely well! We had very few problems, and nothing we couldn’t handle. I could feel the excitement and the awesome impact that the event was having on these 130 boys and everyone else who volunteered–from a distance from it all! It was simply awe-inspiring. Thank you, Emily, for asking me to help. I truly needed and appreciated it! If you want to know more about the event click here, and if you want to see the wonderful photos taken by my friend, Tamra, click .

I’m still getting into the AYLI Secretary thing. I had been so caught up in the KOF Summit, that the other stuff has gone to the wayside. So, I’m playing catch-up. Gratefully, it’s not a huge deal. I’ll be working on updating the database which will be quite the task. I think it’ll take longer than Diann wants it to, but I have a family life too. I can’t spend all day calling hundreds of people. She knows that, however, so I’m not even worried about it.

I may be released from my ERSA position as secretary this month. We’ll see. They may just vote me into another position. I won’t mind either way. I can’t give it up! I’d have to move far away to give it up again. By the way, for those who don’t know, ERSA is the Eliza R. Snow Association, and it’s the wonderful book group I belong to…and I mean, belong!

I haven’t posted many pics of the kids this summer. We’ve been hanging out at home a lot and working on our school work…because they want to! David has been home a lot this summer because of unemployment. So, we occasionally go out and about as a family. David’s working on his writing. He’d like to become a syndicated writer and write a book. It’ll be exciting to see what he does with it!

I have a garden this year…amazing, I know! We’ve grown tons of zucchini and tomatoes. We also have had radishes, beets, carrots, cucumbers, pumpkins, and my favorites: peaches and watermelons. I get at least 3-4 medium-size zucchini a day off of my 8 plants. I get lots of pear tomatoes, and some romas and beefsteaks too. I get at least one cucumber every-other day. We just harvested our second extra-yummy watermelon today. It was so exquisitely tasty! I need to harvest some of my pie pumpkins to cook and freeze. I’ve shredded some zucchini in 2 cup amounts for breads and such later in the year. I froze almost all of my peaches, but I did bottle 9 quarts in sucanat syrup instead of the refined sugar syrup. I made tons of apricot jam (as previously posted) and some strawberry jam earlier this year. I look forward to getting more tomatoes and apples for bottling. My friend, , gave me a bunch of her concord grapes to juice–which reminds me I need to borrow a juicer tomorrow! I’ve been abundantly blessed with a bounty of food this year! I’m so grateful!

Okay, so on to birth…and no I’m not expecting to give birth myself any time soon.

My sister-in-law, David’s sister, is expecting her first baby in February. I’m so excited for her, and I really need to get some books and other resources to her so she can read up on birth. She wants to do it unmedicated and as natural as possible. I’m praying she chooses to educate herself a ton, because that’s really the only way to get what you want, in birth or life.

My friend, Tamra, went on vacation this week, and she asked me to take her baby (aka Digital SLR Camera and lenses) while she was gone. It’s not only to take care of her equipment, but so I can photograph our friend Julia’s birth if she goes into labor while Tamra is gone. Is it selfish of me to want her to go into labor this week? I’ve played with the camera and lenses a bit. It’s been fun, and it only makes my excitement and desire for my own DSLR someday stronger! So, that being said, I’ve been combing the internet for birth photography and looking back on my own attempt at photographing Tamra’s birth. I wanted to get some ideas for labor and birth shots. I went to Tamra’s birth barely knowing how to use her camera and played everything by ear, literally. I didn’t look at anyone else’s pictures for ideas, and I used auto on the camera. This time I know the basics of her camera and I can use the aperture, shutter speed, and ISO settings without freaking out about it. I thought it would be fun to get some ideas about what else to take pictures of. My midwife, Cathy, is Julia’s midwife too this time around. I’m excited to be able to work with her again! Both her and Tamra trust me to not mess up the photography, and knowing Tamra’s abilities, that says a lot! If the photography thing doesn’t work out, well, I still may be assisting at Julia’s birth as Cathy’s assistant. We’ll see. No pressure, Julia, I promise! You know I love ya!

I have several other friends, besides Julia, waiting to welcome their babies into the world in the next few weeks. I wish all of them immense joy and peace during their birthing times. Know I’m praying and thinking about you and your families, my dear friends!

P.S. I fixed the theme again. I hope it stays this time.

Baby Wendy is Here!

Thank you all for your prayers, thoughts, candle lighting, and support during the last couple of weeks. It was difficult to wait for this little one to get here, especially after a days worth of prodromal labor. I’m so grateful for my support team who helped keep me going. Thank you, Tamra, for updating everyone!

We’ve finally named our daughter. She’s literally a joy to have around. Having my other 3 kids around mauling her isn’t a joy, but we’re getting used to it. :) Wendy does have a tongue-tie which will be getting clipped tomorrow morning (thank goodness–nursing isn’t fun right now). My milk came in this afternoon, and we’re both doing well. I’m trying to take it easy, and my husband has been a HUGE help with the kids and around the house. He’s stressed and would (I think) rather be at work, but he’s toughing it out. My sweet Lightning (22 mos.) is having a rough time adjusting. I’m hoping (when my nipples aren’t so sore) that he picks up nursing again.

A little about the labor and birth…Last week (3/29-41 weeks), as many of you know, I had a whole day of prodromal labor. It never really got to active labor and I was saddened that it wasn’t going anywhere. My midwife asked me around 11pm if I wanted to rest or if I wanted to try something to get it going. I was very tired and chose to rest. By Wednesday afternoon my contractions were gone. Waiting out the next week was hard. I thought I’d never go into labor. I enjoyed General Conference as best I could, but would cry at the drop of a hat on Sunday. I was tired of all the questions from family (my husband took the kids to a family breakfast without me to save me from more questions). It put that little seed of doubt in my head that made me think I probably couldn’t do it on my own this time or that I was risking my baby’s health. (I know that the prayers and thoughts of everyone helped get me through!)

Early Monday morning (4/4-41w6d) I had contractions that were waking me up. I decided to get David up to get the birthtub ready (again). I called a few friends and my midwife to let them know I was pretty sure that I was in labor this time. My labor support team (except my midwife) came over. My labor seemed to slow down a bit, but I believe it was because I was tired. We did some Hypnobirthing scripts to help me rest. After resting my labor picked up again. My midwife, Cathy, had come by then and suggested ways to help me turn the baby (she was stubborn and kept turning from ROT to ROP/OP). Later, I got into the tub and felt more relaxed. I had some back labor, but it wasn’t as bad as I had thought. I tried several positions and Cathy tried counterpressure by pushing on my knees. We believe that’s when the baby turned because she was able to find the heartbeat right away (it’d been hard to hear before because of her position). As labor got more serious my girls came back. I was getting so tired, but knew I had to keep going. I’m not sure of how long transition was (it seemed like forever!) I began pushing. I was surprised that my water hadn’t broken yet (a vaginal exam proved that). I could feel her head descending and then the water broke (an answered prayer since I hadn’t been tested for GBS this pregnancy, although we did a chlorhexadine wash to be safe). After 2 minutes of pushing (not bad, eh?), Wendy was born. I asked Ella (my 6yo) if she wanted to announce if it was a boy or girl, but she didn’t want to. I was sort of shocked that it was a girl. I’d been so sure it was a boy! LOL We’d picked a name and everything for a boy, but we had nothing for a girl. I fell in love with her anyway (of course!). I had a small skid mark, but no tearing this time! Her stats were: 9lbs. 8oz., 22 inches long, with a 15 inch head. She has lots of hair (on the sides and the back!) and she’s beautiful!