Gardening and Children
School this past Monday was working in our yard. The kids and I enjoyed being productive, and we really did accomplish a lot:
- weeded the front flowerbeds (which gratefully didn’t need much weeding)
- weeded some of the vegetable garden
- planted sunflower seeds to hide a bare ugly patch of fence
- created a border between the front flower beds and the lawn
- helped the kids put the grass I dug up near their playhouse so it wouldn’t always be muddy when it rained
- experimented with transplanting a cutting of purple phlox
- transplanted some strawberry plants that were being overrun by grass
It only took about 6 hours. I was surprised at how much doing something I had wanted done for so long gave me so much energy. I had only slept about 5 hours the night before. I was tired when I was finished, but I didn’t need a nap! That has been unusual for me lately. I believe it was a lesson to me that I can do the things I need/want to do with as much energy as I need…when I do it joyfully! The kids, of course, had energy and some to spare.
Weeding the Vegetable Garden
I have initially been frustrated with my kids and their unwillingness to help weed the garden. Our garden is fairly large and requires quite a bit of weeding before planting. I normally would just get angry and shout when a child would run off and avoid weeding when the family was doing it, but Monday was different…

I had the idea of weeding together, but we would only do it for 20 minutes. I brought out my kitchen timer. The kids knew ahead of time that weeding wouldn’t last forever. They had a pretty good idea of what 20 minutes was, and they knew they could make it that long. Lightning kept telling me he was a good weeder, and I praised him for being one! My 6yo struggled to keep working, but the other children didn’t complain like they had in the past because now they had an expected time line. I couldn’t believe I hadn’t thought of it before!!! It made for a great time with the kids, and we got quite a chunk of weeding done! My frustration was no longer there, and the children learned that weeding the garden isn’t all that bad. We talked about why it was important to clear the weeds (no sticker plants to hurt their feet or spread everywhere, the weeds would be gone so the plants we wanted like watermelons and pumpkins could be nourished by the soil instead of the weeds taking it, etc…). We did it joyfully together, and it made all of the difference. A few more days of that, and we’ll have the whole garden finished!

Planting Seeds
Though I haven’t done much planting yet, the children all wanted to help plant seeds. I’m amazed at how they understand that these amazing tiny seeds can grow to be huge plants that provide us with beauty and food. Several of my children have wanted to help with or have a place of their own to plant seeds. My oldest two, Ella (12) and Aurora (9) have sectioned off an area near the playhouse for them to plant their own little gardens. Lightning (7) said he wasn’t interested in growing plants, and I know he’ll do it when he’s ready. If he continues to not have an interest, that’s okay. My Wendy (6) is just so happy to help me with my flowers. I may end up with a few sunflowers in the grass due to some seed dropping, and I’m okay with that. Her learning experience matters more than where the seeds are planted. Little Peter (3) wants to help so much he pulls everything out for me because he still thinks we’re weeding, but with some guidance he sure is a good dirt mover. I just had to find a way to include him.
My child with the most devotion to gardening is Aurora. When she gets an idea in her head to do it, she’ll weed, water, and take care of it without much help from me. I love to watch her light up when she’s tells me all about the flowers she planted or the strawberry plant that I had given her is now planted in just the right place. She learns so many lessons from each growing season. She’ll be a terrific gardener, and all because she wants to do it!
Ella told me today that she finds it interesting that we don’t plant our seeds according to the ruler, but according to our fingers. All I did was help her plant her seeds at the right depth and width apart by showing her the measurements on her fingers. Such a simple thing, and she noticed it! I don’t recall that little gem even crossing my own mind. I love learning along with my children and gleaning their wisdom too! Children have such wonderful things to teach us if we just listen.
Transplanting Grass and Strawberries
Over a year ago, we had to remove our flowerbed border because the wood was rotting. Due to other priorities, we never put a new border in. I was getting so frustrated that the grass was overrunning my flowerbeds, and I just couldn’t figure out what to do. After talking with my friend, Emily, I finally had a temporary solution. I could create a gap between the grass and the dirt and make sure to keep the dirt mounded up and away from the grass. It would create a natural border to keep the grass roots from spreading giving us time to save and decide on a more permanent solution.

Using my rounded and square mouth shovels I cut and pried grass up and out of my flower beds. I had quite a few foot wide strips dug out. Aurora reminded me that her and the other children wanted grass near the playhouse. I obliged and told them how to prepare the soil for the grass pieces they would get. Aurora did most of it herself, but Lightning and Ella eventually joined it once they knew what it meant. They naturally wanted to help once they saw the benefit. I often forget as a parent to tell my children the whole story…the benefits as it were…for doing things whether inside our home or outside of it. How easy it is to get them to enjoy the ride instead of complain when they just know the reason.
In the process of clearing my flower beds of grass, I had to dig up some of my strawberry plants (planted in a part of the flower beds). I tried to separate some of the little plants and move them, and there were so many to transplant that I didn’t want to crowd them all in the flowerbed.
My children had a short lesson on transplanting just by watching me dig the plant out, carefully separate the plant from the grass, dig a hole for it, put water in the hole, carefully place the plant in the hole, fill the dirt around it, and water it again. My oldest two were joyful receivers of some of those strawberry plants and followed the easy process of transplanting them by themselves.

I am so excited to see our yard blossom and the children bloom in their knowledge of the Law of the Harvest. We certainly reap what we sow, and gardening is an easy way to teach that to my children.



















